Free Blogger: BIG MOUTHFULS - BIGMOUTHFULS was an advertising salesman who had the modeling agency where Cecilia worked, as a client. That's how they met. He used to banter with her when he visited. After he learned that she was divorced, he seemed to find more reasons to stop by the agency. He finally asked her for a date. Bill was 55 and had been divorced for several years. His wife left him to "find her own space." Bill was very home oriented and doted on his two children. His son had recently married and lived in the area. The daughter worked in a mid-western city, about two hours flying time, and was still in the dating game.
Cecilia and Bill dated for about a year. Neither was certain they wanted to get married again. But neither liked living alone. A small ceremony with just family and a few friends was held.
During the courtship, they weren't exactly celibate, but they only had a few modest experiences. Bill's previous wife had been very experimental, but Bill didn't want to alarm Cecilia by being too aggressive. Cecilia, alternatively, had a more conservative sex life. She liked it in the beginning of their married life. But her ex-husband's quickie, me only mentality left her frustrated and turned off. The one thing that Bill did that sold Cecilia is that before and during sex, he asked what she liked and didn't. Surprised and delighted, Cecilia reciprocated. Both were determined to have a better relationship than with their exes.